Mourner’s Bill of Rights

In our grief group this morning, one of our long-time members mentioned that not long after she experienced a terrible loss, a family member sent her a copy of The Mourner’s Bill of Rights and it was very helpful to her. This clear set of ideas was originally developed by Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., a leading researcher and presenter in grief and loss. We’ve adapted Dr. Wolfelt’s ideas slightly over the years, but the basic premise is the same:

  • Each of our losses is unique.
  • Our relationship with the person we are grieving was unlike any other.
  • We grieve in our own way, in our own time, on our own terms.
  • No one else can tell us how we should or shouldn’t grieve.
  • We each find our way to comfort, and eventually to healing, in a way that feels right and natural for us.

Along the way, we know it helps to have caring others near who understand and support us as we grieve. If we can provide support or resources for you as you find your way through a time of loss, please call (833) 888-7222.

To learn more about our bereavement services, please visit our Bereavement Care page.

Mourners Bill of Rights