Dying is an emotional and spiritual journey.  Each person involved may feel a wide range of emotions. You and the person facing the end of life may experience emotional and spiritual reactions as you prepare for death.  The following feelings are normal reaction and part of that preparation process.

• Asking “Why Me?”
• Fear of being alone, of dying, of going to sleep
• Increased desire for physical affection or touch
• Increased desire to have loved ones close by followed by withdrawing from relationships
• Loss of interest in usual activities
• Feelings of embarrassment about being dependent on others and being a burden
• Feelings of denial, guilt, or anger about changes, relationships, or life
• Wanting to talk about the past
• Returning to religious practices or losing faith in religious beliefs
• Seeing or talking with dead loved ones
• Experiencing spiritual being or phenomenon such as angels, bright light, visions

There are also many practical considerations which individuals and their families may face and feel a need to discuss including:

• Fear of not having enough financial resources, both by the dying person and family members
• Completing wills and estate planning
• Planning for cremation, burial and/or memorial service
• Planning for future care of children, pets, or dependents

It is important to allow each person to talk openly and honestly about these feelings and issues. Your Suburban Hospice, Inc. team is available to help you with these issues. Please call us at 833-888-7222.  You are not alone.